People often ask me, “Roy, how do you achieve your goals and dreams?”

 

This question makes me reflect on the journey I've taken over the past five years to get where I am today.

 

I realised in the early days that success isn’t just a stroke of luck or a single secret trick.

 

It’s a blend of personal development, spirituality, and Chinese Metaphysics. This approach, which I call the Trilogy of Success, has helped me and many others create the lives we truly want.

 

Today, I’m going to share the three core tips from this framework that can help you get what you want in life, with guaranteed results.

 

 

First Tip - Be Crystal Clear About What You Want

 

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that clarity is power.

 

If you’re not 100% clear on what you want, how will you ever reach it?

 

Many of us set vague goals, hoping for more money, a better job, or a happy relationship. But vague goals lead to vague results.

 

Think about it this way:

 

Imagine you’re on a flight from Singapore to London. You’d expect the pilot to know exactly where they’re going, right? If they landed in Japan instead, you’d be concerned!

 

Yet, in life, so many of us drift through without a specific destination, and then we wonder why we’re off course.

 

When I first started setting goals, I wasn’t specific.

 

I wanted to make “more money” or find “success,” but I never defined what that looked like. I finally realised I needed a clear vision – not just a dollar amount or a dream job, but a full picture of the life I wanted to create.

 

Once I did that, it was like creating a roadmap. I knew exactly where I was heading and could make the right moves to get there.

 

To find clarity, ask yourself:

 

What do you really want? Break it down.

 

Do you want to make $10,000 a month? What would that income change in your life?

 

Write it down and make it as specific as possible. You’ll feel the power of setting a concrete goal, and it will motivate you every day.

 

Second Tip - Take Daily Action Toward Your Goals

 

 

Setting goals is just the beginning; taking consistent action is where the magic happens.

 

I call it “Daily Execution” because it’s a reminder that even the smallest step can bring you closer to your dreams.

 

It’s like building a house brick by brick – each day’s effort adds up.

 

But many people fall into what I call the “NATO” trap: No Action, Talk Only.

 

They talk about their dreams but don’t actually put in the work to make them happen. The truth is, without action, dreams remain just that – dreams.

 

In Chinese Metaphysics, we look at timing and energy to help overcome procrastination. On days when I have low energy, I feel the weight of self-doubt and fear. But on high-energy days, I’m full of drive, and things flow naturally.

 

To maximise my high-energy days, I often use QiMen – an ancient system that helps determine the best days and times for specific actions. For example, if I have an important client meeting, I use QiMen to choose the most favourable time and direction to tap into positive energy.

 

This may sound complex, but it’s a powerful way to align yourself with the natural flow of energy. Layering personal energy with specific timing has helped me land big deals and make the most of opportunities.

 

It’s a game-changer if you’re willing to incorporate it.

 

Whether or not you use QiMen, remember that taking daily action is crucial. Your dreams need your action to come to life.

 

Start today, even if it’s a small step. The momentum will build, and you’ll see progress before you know it.

 

Third Tip - Regularly Review and Improve

 

 

Even with clear goals and consistent action, sometimes things don’t go as planned. This is where the third tip comes in: Review and Improve.

 

I learned that success isn’t a straight line; it’s a series of adjustments and refinements.

 

Think of it like an athlete training for the Olympics. They don’t just train once and expect to win; they constantly review their performance, adjust their technique, and make incremental improvements.

 

I approach my goals the same way. Every month, I review my progress and see what’s working and what isn’t. If a strategy isn’t delivering results, I adjust it.

 

In Chinese Metaphysics, I use QiMen on special self-reflection days, called “Self Battle Days.” These days are ideal for honest reflection.

 

I take time to consider my actions, my mindset, and my approach. Through this process, I gain insights into how I can be better, work smarter, and handle challenges with more resilience.

 

For you, taking time to reflect can be as simple as setting aside one day each month to review your goals.

 

Ask yourself questions like:

 

Am I on track? What worked well this month? What could I improve?

 

Make adjustments where needed. Small tweaks can have a huge impact over time.

 

These three tips –

Clarity, Daily Action,
and Regular Review

– are the core of my Trilogy of Success.

 

They may sound simple, but each one requires commitment and intentionality.

 

It’s a powerful formula for achieving what you want in life, whether it’s financial success, personal growth, or fulfilling relationships.

 

The path isn’t always easy, and I’ve certainly faced my own share of setbacks. But with each failure, I learned something valuable, adjusted my course, and kept moving forward.

 

By merging personal development, spirituality, and Chinese Metaphysics, I discovered a framework that works not only for me but for countless others.

 

If you want real, lasting change, start by getting crystal clear about your goals.

 

Take daily action, even on the days when you don’t feel like it.

 

And finally, make it a habit to review and improve – because every little improvement compounds over time.

 

Achieving your dreams is possible, but you have to make a commitment.

 

These three tips won’t do the work for you, but they will guide you.

 

Just remember, every big success is built on the small, consistent steps you take daily.

 

If I can do it, so can you.