As 2024 draws to a close and 2025 approaches, it's the perfect time to reflect on the past and plan for the future.
Over the last five years, I’ve successfully integrated Personal Development, Spirituality, and Chinese Metaphysics to achieve an average of 50% of my yearly goals and dreams. This blend of practices has not only transformed my personal life but has also driven millions in business revenue, enabling me to operate at peak performance daily while enjoying the freedom to travel the world.
Curious about the secret behind these remarkable results? You’re in the right place.
I'm excited to share with you the exact framework that has transformed my life and business. This is the same methodology I'll be teaching my students at the upcoming Celestial Retreat in Bali.
These three simple yet powerful strategies have been the cornerstone of my success, and I’m confident they can help you attract awesome results in 2025 as well.
If you're eager to achieve similar or even better results, keep reading…
Strategy 1: Objective Review of Your Life
One of the most consistent practices I engage in is regularly reviewing my life.
This isn’t just a casual glance; it’s a deliberate, structured reflection that provides clarity and perspective.
The primary purpose of this review is to pause, take a step back, and assess where I am on my life journey.
Why Objective Review Matters
When we don’t take the time to objectively review our lives, our minds tend to react defensively and negatively to events. This automatic negativity can cloud our judgment and derail our progress toward our goals.
For example, consider a recent trip I took to the Sydney Oyster Farm. We boarded a boat and were seated in the second row at the front. The skipper warned us about potential water splashes, but as the boat sped off, a huge wave drenched us all, and my DJI OSMO Pocket 3 camera was damaged.
In the past, my immediate reaction would have been to blame the skipper or my partner who booked the tour. Such negative thinking would have marred the entire holiday experience.
However, by objectively reviewing the situation, I recognized that despite the inconvenience, I had the best trip of my life. Standing at the sea, shucking oysters, and eating them directly was a dream come true.
Focusing on the positives allowed me to preserve those precious memories instead of letting negativity overshadow them.
How to Conduct an Objective Review
To objectively review your life, follow these steps:
- Gather Your Tools: Use a journal or a digital document to record your reflections.
- Chronological Review: Go through the major events of the year, month by month, and note them down.
- Ask Key Questions:
- What Have I Done Well Through All These Events?
- What Can I Improve Through All These Events?
- How Can I Do It Better The Next Time?
Notice that I use the word “improve” instead of “what I did wrong.”
The choice of words is powerful.
Focusing on improvement encourages a growth mindset, allowing you to learn from past experiences without dwelling on mistakes.
Example from My Experience:
- What Went Well: Enjoyed the oyster farm trip and created unforgettable memories.
- What Can I Improve: Anticipate water splashes by bringing extra clothes and wearing sandals instead of covered shoes. Protect electronic devices by using waterproof bags.
- How to Do It Better Next Time: Prepare adequately for similar activities to prevent negative impacts on experiences and possessions.
By systematically reviewing your life with these questions, you gain clarity and actionable insights, setting a solid foundation for achieving your goals.
Strategy 2: Plan Your Life Ahead
Setting goals is essential, but having a structured plan to achieve them is even more crucial.
Every year, I dedicate time to set SMART goals—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound—for the upcoming year.
These goals serve as my lighthouse, guiding my actions and decisions throughout the year.
The Wheel of Life Tool
One of the most effective tools I use for planning is the Wheel of Life.
This powerful framework helps you focus on the top six areas of your life, ensuring a balanced approach to personal and professional success.
The Wheel of Life encompasses areas such as Career, Experiences, Wellness, Relationships, Growth and Personal Fulfillment.
Setting SMART Goals
For each of the six areas, I set three SMART goals, totaling 18 goals for the year. Here’s how it works:
- Career:
- Achieve a $100,000 income.
- Get promoted to a managerial position.
- Launch a new business venture.
- Experiences:
- Travel to three new countries.
- Attend the Celestial Retreat in Bali.
- Learn a new hobby or skill.
- Wellness:
- Establish a consistent fitness routine.
- Practice daily meditation.
- Maintain a balanced and healthy diet.
- Relationships:
- Strengthen relationships with family and friends.
- Network with industry leaders.
- Attend monthly social events.
- Growth:
- Read 12 personal development books.
- Enroll in an advanced course or certification.
- Set aside time for regular self-reflection and journaling.
- Personal Fulfillment:
- Dedicate time to volunteer for a cause I’m passionate about.
- Create a personal blog to share my journey.
- Develop a new creative project.
By setting specific goals in each area, I ensure that my life remains balanced.
Achieving 9-11 of these SMART goals by the end of the year means I’ve met at least 50% of my objectives, providing a sense of accomplishment and motivation to continue striving for excellence.
Adapting Your Plans
While I rarely shift my goals unless there’s a major life change, I remain flexible in my planning.
Life is unpredictable, and being able to adapt ensures that you stay on track even when circumstances change. Regularly revisiting your goals allows you to make necessary adjustments, maintaining alignment with your overarching life vision.
Strategy 3: Know Your Energy
Understanding and harnessing your personal energy is a game-changer in achieving your goals.
Drawing from Chinese Metaphysics, specifically BaZi Destiny Charts, QiMen Destiny Charts, and Feng Shui Charts, I align my strategies with the energies of each year.
Understanding Yearly Energy
Each year is governed by specific energies that influence various aspects of your life.
For instance, 2024 was the Wood Dragon Year (Jia Chen Nian), and 2025 is the Wood Snake Year (Yi Si Nian). These energies interact with your personal destiny charts, affecting your career, wealth, relationships, and overall well-being.
Forecasting and Adjusting Goals
By accurately forecasting the energies of the coming year, you can adjust your goals and targets to align with these influences. Here’s how:
- Analyze Your Destiny Charts: Use your date and time of birth to plot your BaZi Destiny Chart, QiMen Destiny Chart, and Feng Shui Chart. These charts remain constant throughout your life and provide insights into your personal energy.
- Identify Yearly Influences: Determine how the current year's energy interacts with your destiny charts. For example, a Wood Snake Year might enhance your creativity and strategic thinking, making it an ideal time to launch a new business or pursue a creative project.
- Adjust Your Goals Accordingly: Based on the forecast, adjust your goals to leverage favorable energies. If the year indicates a potential for career growth, set ambitious career goals. If personal relationships are highlighted, focus on strengthening those bonds.
Example: In a Wood Snake Year, the energy might support entrepreneurial ventures and strategic planning. Therefore, you could set a goal to launch a new business or expand an existing one, taking advantage of the conducive energy.
Practical Application
Integrating this knowledge into your planning ensures that your goals are not only ambitious but also aligned with the natural energies around you.
This synergy enhances your ability to achieve exceptional results, as you’re working in harmony with the universe rather than against it.
Putting It All Together
This 3-step framework has been my guiding principle for over five years, consistently delivering exceptional results. Here’s a quick recap:
- Objective Review of Your Life: Regularly reflect on your experiences with an objective mindset, focusing on what you’ve done well, areas for improvement, and strategies for future success.
- Plan Your Life Ahead: Set SMART goals across key areas of your life using the Wheel of Life tool, ensuring a balanced and comprehensive approach to personal and professional growth.
- Know Your Energy: Leverage Chinese Metaphysics to understand the yearly energies and align your goals accordingly, maximizing your potential for success.
By implementing these strategies, you can transform your approach to goal-setting and achievement.
This framework has not only worked for me but also for many of my Inner Circle students, who have seen remarkable improvements in their personal and professional lives.
Join the Celestial Retreat in Bali
If you’re ready to take your personal development journey to the next level, I invite you to join me at the upcoming Celestial Retreat in Bali. Here, I will delve deeper into this framework, providing hands-on guidance and personalized insights to help you achieve your dreams and goals in 2025.
Don’t wait until the last minute to start planning your year.
Begin today by implementing these three strategies, and set yourself on the path to exceptional results. Finish reading this post, take action, and watch as your dreams become reality in the coming year.
Remember, the secret to success lies in consistent, intentional actions. Embrace these strategies, stay committed, and 2025 will be your year of transformation and achievement.