Today is such an happy day for all of us, as Stephen’s family is in town. Stephen’s parents, sister and sister’s children are here. And the house is filled with joy, laughter, and of course sometimes, some baby’s cries!

The first night, we went to our favorite restaurant to have lunch. The restaurant that we went to is only on lunch menu, and on the lunch menu, they do not have our favorite and tasty Atlantic King Salmon. But because we knew the boss of this restaurant personally, he’s more than happy and willing to prepare us our favorite dish for all 10 of us. Now, that’s what I called about building relationships.

Here’s a quick photo of everyone’s smiling after filling our empty and hungry stomach…

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How many times in your life do you want to quit? How many times in your life do you simple wants to just give up? Or even worst, give up your life… I know I do. Giving up is such an easy statement and I also heard that or experience that from my friends, or teams I have worked with before.

So, you might ask, “So, Roy, what do you do not to give up, and do you do to keep going?” Simple! I keep myself…

Motivated!

Motivation, is such a common word now a days, and to many people, it’s such an overuse words. I have friends who attended a lot of motivation course and they are telling me that it didn’t work! If you tell me that many years back when I first started attending personal development seminars and etc, I would have agree with you. But today, I realize and discovered that it’s further from the truth.

What I talk about Motivation, I do not mean by doing all the jumping, walking on the fire, feeling the ‘high’ that you get from most motivational seminars. That’s why most people were back to their old self and habits just weeks after ‘motivational’ seminar. I’m talking about Internal Motivation here…

Motivation within you!

What’s motivate you? What moves you? What excites you? What stir the emotions in you that makes you have ‘goose bumps’? What’s keeps you enthusiastic?

For me, it’s my dream! A dream that I have created myself, a dream that’s I can relate to, a dream that’s not so BIG that I think it’s unachievable, a dream that I can reach and it stretches myself to grow.

As I was reading this book, it says this statement that I totally agree with and I want to share with you, “My Success In Life Is Completely Determined By My Ability To Stay Focused, Motivated & Stay Enthusiastic Toward An Uncommon Goal.” I love this statement, and I’m take it and internalize it now. If you notice, the key words here are, Stay Focus, Stay Motivated, Stay Enthusiastic, Uncommon Goal. This statement comes from non other than, Mike Murdock.

So, if you want to continue to find out more on how I stay focus, stay motivated, stay enthusiastic, and what uncommon goals do I have in my life…

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Belief / Mindset / Physcology – Whatever you known as, to me, it’s the single most important element in Success. Over the years, I have learnt and experience that our mind constituent to at least 80% to our success

And that’s the most important part to success, be it whatever success you are looking at or for. Be it Financial Success, Relationship Success, Career Success or Family Success. It is crucial and critical. I have seen a lot of people who just have a very ‘small’ mental block about certain things, that would actually sabotages his success in a big way.

That why I spend some time writing about belief in my first blog post and that’s how I wanted to quick start this blog too.

Wtihout all the education that I get over the years, and I do not mean academic education, I would not be who am I today. All the books, audio CD, seminars and people I have met over the years have just all adds up, building and shaping my mind to get ready for today.

My friends and family would always ask why would I want to spend so much money on seminars, books and audio… often more than 5 figures a year in personal development.

Now that I have seen results after all so many years of hard work, you bet I will continue to spend more time, effectively absorbing more knowledge from books, audio and seminars. This will be my basic of learning. I choose to do that as I know the day I stop growing and learning. That’s the day I will fall. This might sound harsh for you, however, you can choose not to think this way. At the end of the day, it’s what you choose to think that matters.

What you have in your mind, will translate that into action, which in turns will give you the results that you are looking for. Many a times, when someone wants a different results, they will look for other “quick scheme” or “quick fix” that are temporary. Instead, they should look for new ideas, mindset or persepective where they could use it and get the results they desire.

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